Misplaced Guilt

Guilt has a way of presenting itself as proof. It settles into your chest, disrupts your peace, and convinces you that if you feel bad, you must have done something wrong.

But feelings are not always facts.

Sometimes guilt is not evidence of wrongdoing. Sometimes it is the residue of being taught to carry what belongs to everyone else.

That is misplaced guilt.

It is the guilt you feel for setting a boundary instead of examining the behavior that made the boundary necessary. It is the guilt you feel for telling the truth instead of questioning why the truth was so difficult for someone to hear. It is the