This morning’s verse on my Bible app really spoke to me:

“And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;” – Romans 5:3 (KJV)

Over the last year and a half, life has felt like one storm after another. I’ve faced so many challenges that, for a long time, I truly wondered if I was being punished. That’s where my mind stayed for months—thinking maybe I had done something wrong, and that’s why it felt like everything was falling apart.

But lately,

Navigating Relationships: Embracing Wisdom in Forgiveness

Greetings, cherished seekers of insight and connection! In the intricate dance of human relationships, we often encounter moments that test our emotional resilience. While conventional wisdom advises us to “Forgive and Forget,” let’s explore an alternative perspective that encourages a more nuanced approach: “Don’t hold grudges but remember facts.”

Forgive and Forget: A Common Adage

The well-known saying “Forgive and Forget” has been a cornerstone of advice when it comes to healing emotional wounds. This mantra advocates for releasing resentment entirely, seeking emotional freedom, and moving forward with a clean slate.

A Nuanced Approach: Don’t Hold Grudges but Remember Facts

Let me share a personal experience