Growing Pains: Parenting a Teen While They Outgrow You

Parenting a teenager is like watching a beautiful flower bloom-exciting, awe-inspiring, and bittersweet. My daughter is growing into an independent, strong young woman, and I couldn’t be prouder. But if I’m honest, that same independence sometimes leaves me feeling… alone.

This is my first time being a parent to a 16-year-old, just as it’s her first time being 16. We’re both figuring things out as we go, making mistakes, learning, and trying again. It’s messy. It’s emotional. And some days, it feels like we’re speaking entirely different languages.

But in the chaos of teenage emotions, occasional outbursts, and moments where I feel

Parenting and Perception: Challenging the Norms

Dear Readers,

Today, I want to share a profound conversation I had with my daughter. She brought up a powerful point about how society often views parenting—and the double standards that come with it.

She asked why single fathers are frequently praised simply for showing up, while single mothers—who carry the weight of parenting day in and day out—are seen as just fulfilling their “duty.” Why is a father celebrated for doing what he’s supposed to do, while a mother rarely receives the same recognition?

This isn’t to take anything away from fathers. In fact, I’m one of those people who often celebrate dads fo

Embracing the New School Year: A Tribute to All Who Shape Our Future

Hello Friends,

Welcome back to Just Catrina, where I share my journey, insights, and a little bit of everything in between. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the lessons, or just to see what I’m up to, I’m glad you’re here.

It’s been a while since I last posted—since July, to be exact. I decided to take the summer off to spend time with my family, soaking up every moment of togetherness before the school year began. And now, here we are, stepping into another school year, but this one feels different, more poignant.

As a parent this year, the reality hit me hard:

Celebrating Motherhood: A Tribute to the Strong Women in Our Lives

Dear readers,

As we celebrate Mother's Day today, I find myself reflecting on the incredible women who have shaped my life and journey as a mother. Today, I want to share with you the profound impact my own mother, sister, and the diverse community of mothers have had on me, and why I believe every mother deserves to be celebrated.

Tribute to My Mom:

First and foremost, I must pay tribute to my mom - a beacon of strength, love, and unwavering support. Her guidance, wisdom, and boundless love have shaped me into

Greetings, cherished readers!

Today, I warmly invite you into the heart of my parenting journey, a path illuminated by the timeless wisdom and enduring love passed down through generations, particularly from my mother.

Timeless Tales and Wisdom:

In the narratives of our family, I discover not just stories but profound wells of wisdom. These timeless tales are more than accounts; they are heirlooms of enduring significance, shaping the very fabric of our existence. From the tender embrace of maternal love to the practical insights drawn from experience, each story holds a sacred space in our family’s legacy.

Intersecting Lives:

My life intricately intersects with those who walked this familial path before me. The ties that bind us form a rich tapestry, woven with threads of

Hello, dear readers! Today, I'd like to dive into a topic that many single parents can relate to—the art of balancing parenthood, a demanding career, and the essential practice of self-care. It's a juggling act that comes with its unique set of challenges and rewards.

The Single Parent's Dilemma

Life as a single parent is a whirlwind of responsibilities. From the moment you wake up, you're on the go, ensuring your child is cared for, loved, and supported. The days are long, and the nights are even longer. But within this demanding routine lies the opportunity to create a balanced and fulfilling life.

Balancing Act: Parenthood, Career, and Self-Care

Balancing parenthood, a career, and self-care is no small feat, but it is achievable with conscious choices and support. Here are some strategies for finding balance:

Prioritize Self-Care: Remember that self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity. By taking care of yourself, you become better equipped to care for your child and excel in your career. Consider self-care as the fuel that keeps you going on this juggling

Hello, dear readers,

Today, I want to discuss a topic that lies close to my heart: the critical role of parents in preventing peer-to-peer abuse, including bullying, harassment, and relational aggression. Moreover, we’ll explore the connection between open and trusting communication within the family and child safety.

In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, family connections can weaken. The lack of communication, excessive work commitments, and the ever-encroaching digital world can erode the bonds that hold families together. It’s crucial to recognize that when family connections weaken, children may be at an increased risk of various challenges, including peer-to-peer abuse.

Bullying, harassment, and relational aggression can have a profound impact on a child’s

Hello, dear readers,

Today, I want to delve into a topic that deeply concerns me as a mother and educator. We live in a digital age where children are more connected than ever, thanks to the prevalence of social media and online platforms. While this connectivity offers numerous advantages, it also brings with it certain risks, such as cyberbullying and online exploitation. It is essential for parents, caregivers, educators, and all of us to comprehend these issues and work together to ensure a safe online environment for our children.

As a mother, the thought of my children navigating the cyber world is a source of concern and anxiety. We’ve all heard stories of online exploitation, cyberbullying, and other digital threats that children can encounter. The anonymity of the

As a citizen, educator, and a parent, child abuse prevention is a cause that resonates deeply with me. I’ve dedicated my platform to informing and educating others about this vital issue, and today, I want to discuss an often-overlooked aspect of parenting – self-care. I’ve realized that, to be the best parent and protector for my child, I must first take care of myself. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s a paramount element in child abuse prevention.

The Role of Self-Care in Parenting

Parenting is a demanding role, one that brings immense joy but also considerable stress. As parents, we’re responsible for the safety and well-being of our children. While our love and commitment to our kids are unwavering, we sometimes forget the importance of nurturing our own physical and mental